It has been a very long time since I locked my journal down. My reasons at the time were good ones; my reasons for keeping this a private journal are better ones. I've had a few stalkers, I've had people stalking my friends through me - it's all a little more drama than I need in my life. I am a part-time field EMT, full time nursing student, full time wife and mom, and independently owned by the Burning Man Project. This does not leave me with a lot of free time. This journal exists for me to vent, to process, and to share my life with the people I care about. In the last five years it has become a valuable tool for keeping in touch with some of the people I love, a difficult thing when they are spread out around the globe. If you are adding me just for the sake of adding a new person, be aware that I very rarely post things publicly, and am not interested in growing my friends list just for vanity. If you are someone that I actually know, please comment on this entry and explain why you would like to be added to my friends list. I have made exceptions; there are two people on my list that I have never personally met, but know only through other friends, and I have come to value both of their opinions greatly. Oh, and I periodically prune my friends list of people who seem to have dropped off of livejournal. If I have removed you, and you're actually still here but quiet, please let me know that too and I will of course put you back! And, er, if at sometime in the past I removed you because you posted too much, and you still want to be my friend, tell me that too. :) I'm better at just skipping over entries I don't have time to read than I used to be! mood: irritated
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